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In this post Coach Marilyn explores light therapies that help counter the effects of colder days and darker skies — one grounded in science and the other is rooted in ancient human comfort and the transfixing glow of firelight. Whether navigating seasonal sluggishness or simply craving a little more warmth in the months ahead, these practices might just brighten winter from the inside out.

Last year about this time I'd just moved to the DC area from Arizona and relished the sights linked to the change of seasons, especially the colors of autumn I hadn't seen in years living in the "valley of the sun."


Coach Marilyn making a snow angel in a snowy city park.
That's me making a snow angel!

Then winter arrived and so did a rare snowfall for the area — up to six inches of the white, fluffy stuff I knew well growing up in Michigan. I had to invest again in winter gear: gloves, wooly hats, scarves, and a puffer jacket. Like so many others, it's that time again to shift seasonal clothes and pull out the sweaters and leggings and stow away the shorts and sandals until next spring.


Changing temperatures and shorter days also send signals to our bodies that prompt more than a shift in wardrobe. Such factors may also significantly alter our behaviors — and health. As we find ourselves spending more time indoors, we get less exercise and eat more, whether for comfort or to celebrate the upcoming holidays.


Bar graph of flu activity 1982-2025. February peaks at 18 seasons. Notable months: December (9), January (6), March (6). Blue and white.
Graph courtesy of the Centers for Disease Control. And what's with February!?

About this time we're been warned to get that flu shot before we're blasted with germ-laden sneezes. Researchers predict we'll end up spending roughly $36 each on products to get us through the season's coughs, colds and pesky flu bugs. Our demand for such over-the-counter remedies picked up in October and won't let up until next March. Tis the season ... to hunker down, stay warm, and hope our constitutions are strong enough to get us to spring.


What's happening is that two phenomena are simultaneously impacting our bodies and our well-being: falling temperatures and fading light. Both can adversely affect our immune systems. The combination makes us more vulnerable to such "seasonal illnesses." And don't even get me started on dry skin.


What impacts our bodies of course also infects our minds and further darkens our spirit. Not the kind featured in endless loops of holiday music we'll hear for the next six weeks. But a spirt that's more of a guiding light emanating from deep within us, where we hold try to hold space for solace and create a sanctuary for sacred wisdom.


Below is one remedy I wrote about last year and the other is one I'm newly exploring. Both deal with how best to counteract the lack of light and dip in temperatures. Both are fairly easy to do and can become valuable rituals to maintaining good health and boosting happiness in the months ahead.


Here comes the sun ... or as close as we can get


Three multicolored ice drinks in blue, red, and yellow stand on a reflective surface. The blurred dark blue background enhances the vibrant colors. These are ice drinks served at a Stockholm Hotel.
Hotel C Stockholm's Ice-crafted drinks.

We can learn a lot from those who live through extreme cases of cold and dark conditions as the seasons change. Despite having as little as five hours of daylight in many parts of Scandinavia, they tend to lean into the cold and embrace concepts such as "icebars." No matter what season, they're reported to be among the happiest people in the world.


That's not to say the Scandinavians aren't as susceptible as the rest of us to a condition called seasonal affective disorder or SAD. In fact, this mental condition seems somehow woven into their cultural zeitgeist. As such, they prepare for its arrival and take bold action to keep it from overwhelming their otherwise positive natures.


Those diagnosed with SAD, which impacts more than 10 million Americans, may find themselves afflicted with low energy, sleepiness, changes in appetite, or feelings of hopelessness, among other symptoms. More significantly, roughly 10% of all people living in the Northern Hemisphere will demonstrate at least one or two of those ill effects during the coming winter months.


At the base of what causes SAD involves our circadian rhythms — our biological clocks that trigger our bodies when to release chemicals and hormones that energize our days and induce sleep once darkness descends. (Most of the year I use a sleep mask to help with fluctuating natural light.) Shorter days also prompt our bodies to adapt, but sometimes they need our help.


One treatment recommended by doctors and mental health experts involves light therapy. via lamps that are widely available online or in stores throughout areas that experience darker winters.


Video courtesy of the Mayo Clinic

This light therapy involves "a special kind of full spectrum lamp that delivers at least 10,000 lux light intensity, every morning, for 20-30 minutes a day," notes Jake Choiniere, a psychiatrist at Providence Swedish hospital. To learn more about the pros and cons of light therapy, check out Healthline Media, a reputable, free online source located in the US.


Easy-to-use lighting rituals to brighten winter spirits


If purchasing special lamps seems too complicated, try investing in remedy with ancient roots and minimal costs. Any form of a flickering flame will do the trick. It can cost as little as the price of a tealight candle or as much as an elaborate, custom fireplace. (Or we can visit the neighborhood café or pub and cozy up to theirs.)


Lit candles with warm, flickering flames create a serene and cozy atmosphere against a soft golden background.

Any form of light therapy can help:


  • Reduce stress and anxiety.

  • Encourage a meditative state.

  • Increase the sense of comfort and security..


Our brains are wired to respond to fire, in particular. For thousands of years, fire meant safety, warmth, food, and community. Even today our nervous system reacts to it in profoundly soothing ways. The soft, flickering light activates the parts of the brain we associate with calm and focus. It can also lower our cortisol levels (our stress hormone), while nudging us into a “rest-and-digest” parasympathetic state.


The rhythmic movement of flames can create what psychologists call attentional anchoring — a meditative focus that gives our minds a break from constant stimulation. Whenever we feel a dip in mood or motivation, try staring into a fire, whether from a scented simple candle or a stone fireplace. Grasp the sense of comfort and emotional ease.


The magic of fireplaces (real and imaginery) to boost happiness


According to a report by the Hearth, Patio & Barbecue Association, more than half of Americans own a hearth product such as a fireplace or wood-burning stove. And that covers a lot of different types: from large, elaborate constructions to small, wall-mounted units.


Ornate black fireplace with a glowing electric fire, bottles, and mugs on top. Warm and cozy atmosphere with elegant decor.
This isn't my uncle's but close enough.

One of my cherished childhood memories involves my uncle's "fake fireplace" — a popular concept back in the 1960s. He had a fireplace mantel but its ability to make fire had been rendered inoperable by the previous owner, who had bricked up the chimney. My uncle then installed a pre-packaged system of "flicker flame" bulbs, cellophane shades, and a rotating device that worked together to project "fire" on a bed of artificial logs. It never failed to make me smile. And I swear if I stared at it long enough, it gave off real heat.


I'm certainly not here to endorse any product or suggest any workable budget for such things, but I've been eyeing several options myself. Most cost less than $200 and don't require a chimney or other ventilating system. Several online vendors feature them and a simple search will yield plenty of choices. I'm torn between a small tabletop version and a wall-mounted electric unit.


Until I make that decision, I may have to settle for an option that's available to all of us and costs nothing: put on long-playing video and just pretend. Stare at the screen long enough, and maybe you too will start to feel warmer.



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A view of Earth from space shows which hemisphere gets the sun's light for part of the year. (Image credit: NOAA).
A view of Earth from space shows which hemisphere gets the sun's light for part of the year. (Image credit: NOAA).

It's that time of year again: that day every September when daylight and darkness strike a rare balance — before the scales tip toward longer nights. Seems like I just wrote about the last fun-packed weeks of summer. Yet, today officially kicks off fall. Or to use its more poetic-sounding name: autumn.


Officially it's called the "autumn equinox" in the Northern Hemisphere. It's when the Earth's axis is tilted neither toward nor away from the sun, resulting in a "nearly" equal amount of daylight and darkness at all latitudes.


Honor the Rhythm of Light and Dark


That sounds pretty sciencey to me. My friend Dave, with his brilliant grasp of how stuff works (in outer space or under the hood of my car) sees the brush strokes in the science of nature. But he's not here to help me explain. The above picture, from my perspective, looks like a half-illuminated marble whose size I can't comprehend.


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Dave, like autumn, is a blend of scientific precision and artful expression. Also, like the season, Dave doesn't fully grasp the extent of his gifts — an innate complexity masquerading as ordinary. A self-proclaimed "gear head" who can write the most soulful poetry (my description, not his). In our 20s, Dave and I had our summer-styled friends, with their aligned glamor and getaway appeal. But Dave and autumn proceed at their own steady pace, rarely advertising their layers or nuanced dimension.


To understand the magic of autumn, we must see its durable roots in nature, dating back more than 4 billion years. And it has something to do with the Earth's titled axis relative to the sun. Almost as rich a history is the myth-making that surrounds autumn's elusive allure. It can be used as a metaphor, as in describing the fading of someone's life force as their "autumn years." In the other direction are autumn's intense "bursts of color" — capable of inspiring and mystifying us.


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Ever witness a "harvest moon"? In late September it can loom over the horizon for several nights shortly after sunset, looking more like an exotic, spherical invader from space than the colorless orb we routinely see in the sky.

The equinox itself, which occurs annually between September 21 and 24, is nature’s reminder that a balance point between opposites can exist. As days shorten and nights lengthen, we too can embrace opposite forces in our lives: be both active and at rest in equal measures. It's the season that empowers us to notice when to lean into energy, and when to step back into stillness. Perhaps it's also there to balance a world in which we search for facts but also open our minds to intuitively trust the wiser universe.


Autumn has always spoken to me. Maybe it’s the crispness in the air, or the blaze of colors from trees that are in the process of gently surrendering their leaves. We too could follow autumn's lead and let go, willingly surrender to embrace the larger rhythms of nature. The trees don’t resist — they trust the cycle. Why do we try to hold on to what no longer serves us?


As I'm out walking or driving in the weeks ahead — and passing the stunning displays of gold and crimson foliage — I'm going to try to mimic their ability to "go with the flow." Better yet, I'll write myself a slogan I can remember: to enjoy the glow and let go!


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The equinox doesn’t last more than a day. And the colorful leaves only dazzle us for a few weeks. But their combined gift is a gentle nudge: to pause, breathe deeply, and trust in the cycles of change. While spring urges us to air out the house or invite the fresh air inside, autumn asks us to turn inward — to make the most of that liminal space between light and dark, between warm and cool, or between (summer) chaos and (autumn) calm.


Reflect on what to carry forward


Letting go or starting over doesn't mean simply putting away the summer shorts and flip flops and re-shelving our closet with socks and sweaters. It's about slowly contemplating the next chapter of life. To use this pivot point in the seasons to ask ourselves not only what are willing to part with, but what do we really want to carry forward?


"Life starts all over again when it gets crisp in the fall," wrote F. Scott Fitzgerald.


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For some such do-overs start with nixing old routines, questioning less-than-healthy habits, or lightening overbooked schedules. The latter was the point of my late summer blog post. It may be more profound: to shed an outdated version of ourselves. Autumn gives us permission to release what no longer fits into the lives we want to live. No matter our age, it's about shedding "old leaves" to make way for new growth.


Resetting our nervous systems


Many wellness magazines and programs about now boast about autumn's more immediate and tangible benefits: the chance to reset our nervous systems. As one blog from a chiropractic practice in Wisconsin noted, autumn is all about encouraging our:


🟢 Natural rhythms to return. Our nervous system thrives on consistency — and as our regular routines of work, school, and recreation return, so does our system's regulation.


🟢 Sensory overloads to fade. Summer was all about stimulation — from sun, sound, and socializing. Slowing down helps recalibrate our nervous systems.


🟢 Systems to realign. Physical misalignments from travel, poolside lounging, or carrying kids around theme parks can be corrected and reset to more sustainable norms.


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An Oklahoma-based hospital system also described other benefits to autumn. First, are enjoying the homespun, heart-warming tastes of the season. Foods that often mimic the colors of turning leaves -- golden gourds, orange pumpkins, and red apples. And what about the intoxicating scent of cinnamon and nutmeg flavoring everything from desserts to freshly brewed coffees?


Another benefit is to get the chance to improve our sleep habits — a natural outgrowth of spending more time indoors. Yes, we're still walking, biking, and hiking, but with "cooler cooler temperatures, the risk of heat-related issues are reduced," noted the hospital blog. For a seasonal twist on exercise, we could always go outside and rake up those fallen leaves!


Chasing autumn: how to watch colors change across North America


There are a lot of sites available to help track how and when the foliage will change across the US and Canada during autumn. The more northern areas of the US and the southern parts of Canada feature spectacular fall color because of more notable changes in temperatures and available sunlight.


Why do leaves change from green to such vibrant hues?


Since my friend Dave isn't on hand, I'll do my best to explain. Or I'll let the environmental scientists at the State University of New York do it for me.


According to them, most of the year the yellow and orange pigments, carotenes and xanthophyll pigments in deciduous tree leaves are masked by great amounts of green coloring. Then, in the fall, "because of changes in the length of daylight and changes in temperatures, the leaves stop their food-making process."


That food, known as chlorophyll, "breaks down, the green color disappears, and the yellow to orange colors become visible and give the leaves their fall splendor."


If the process still isn't clear, don't worry. Just enjoy the colorful show.


🍁 Where to See Fall Colors Online: U.S. & Canada


The resources below are both entertaining and restorative — a way to contemplate nature, reset our nervous system, and feel connected to the rhythms of change no matter where we are.


🇺🇸 United States

  • SmokyMountains.com Fall Foliage MapInteractive map predicting peak foliage nationwide. Tracks where color is just beginning, near peak, or past peak. Perfect for trip planning or simply watching the season unfold.

  • ExploreFall.comDaily updated foliage maps for each state, plus forecasts and reports. Offers a satisfying, almost meditative check-in as the colors deepen.

  • EarthCam Fall CamsLive streaming views from parks, mountains, and cityscapes. A calming “virtual walk” when we need a pause from our desks.

  • Almanac Fall Foliage MapThe trusted Old Farmer’s Almanac provides maps, peak dates, and tips for savoring fall’s colors.

  • National Park Service Webcams — Shenandoah and Yosemite

🇨🇦 Canada


These fall-color websites and webcams are more than travel guides — they’re windows into the quiet magic of the season. They track peak foliage across the US and Canada, showing where reds, golds, and oranges are blazing brightest in real time. Some sites offer interactive maps that predict when color will crest in a certain area. Others stream live views from mountaintops, forests, and lakeshores so we can watch autumn unfold day by day.


Why does this matter? Because even when we can’t get outside, contemplating nature still manages to calm our nervous systems. In previous blog posts, I've shared research that demonstrates how looking at trees, skies, or shifting landscapes can lower stress hormones and slow a racing mind.


Watching leaves change color invites us to pause, breathe, and remember how we’re part of something larger than our inboxes.


In a world that keeps speeding up or seemingly spinning wildly, these sites offer a reset button: a way to savor beauty, regain balance, and let nature’s rhythms do their quiet, restorative work on us.


Why not add a soundtrack to the fall spectacle?


The French composer and jazz pianist Michel Legrand (1932-2019) wrote a melancholy ode to the season, aptly entitled "Falling Leaves." It's been covered by many artists over the decades, giving voice to lyrics about coping with love, loss, and inevitable change. In any of its versions, it might be the perfect accompaniment to watching the colors change in the weeks ahead — whether from a web cab or out our own windows. 🍂 🌅 🍁



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Summer is the season many of us associate with time off or time away from our regular, more predictable routines. We go on vacations to discover new places. Or to show old places to new friends and family members. We hit the road with unbridled enthusiasm and take in historic sites, chiseled monuments, and breathtaking national parks.


We do so with a sense of urgency. That's because we grasp the fleeting nature of a season that forecasts idealized leisure, ceaseless sunshine, and postcard-perfect memories.


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What’s lodged in our imaginations is that fun-in-the-sun vibe we see shared on social media. Or visions of ourselves basking in those "lazy hazy days of summer" (thanks, Nat King Cole). Perhaps we imagine we're Sandy and Danny in Grease hoping to get swept away by a summer romance.


For me summer is often accompanied by a lifelong soundtrack that anticipated the romantic fiction of the "Endless Summer" the Beach Boys once promised me.


Most of us have a summer anthem we start humming once the weather gets warmer. Depending on our age and era, we might hear Frank Sinatra's "Summer Wind," the Go-Gos' "Vacation," or Harry Styles' "Watermelon Sugar."


Sly & the Family Stone's "Hot Fun in the Summertime" from 1969 is one of my favorites.

Beyond biological needs and circadian rhythms, why do we worship the sun, especially in summer? Helen Keller once observed that if we turn our faces "to the sun," we can avoid seeing "the shadows." Is that what all this mandated fun in the sun is meant to do: dodge sadness and keep melancholy at bay? That's a lot of pressure to put on a season. And perhaps a warning sign about how precarious our grip on happiness is that no beach towel can cover up or slice of watermelon can soothe.


Perhaps we're trying to do more with more. To emphasize quantity over quality and cram in as much as we can. Even if that strategy risks further depleting what energy reserves any plans are meant to restore. A stressful approach to a stress-free experience that leaves us needing a vacation from our vacation.



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It's not the journey, it's the destination?


Contrary to the most sage advice about how wisdom lies in the journey, we often fixate on our summer destination and endure whatever it takes to get there. Both the journey and the destination could yield spontaneous moments of joy or heartfelt insights, if only we could relax long enough to let them happen on their own.


We're well aware that all the planning, packing, and transporting ourselves to dream destinations is not the fun part. Nor are they alone capable of revealing truths about ourselves. Still, we promise ourselves fun (and plenty of healing sun) once we get to the lake, the cottage, the ocean, the campsite, the resort, or fill-in-the-blank theme park.


Not too long ago I watched a neighbor load up his station wagon for a week's vacation with his family. He spent hours strapping things to the roof, fixing gear to the tailgate, and buckling down even more stuff in a trailer he was to tow. Everything was overflowing with "toys" for the trails, waves, and BBQs ahead. And he looked exhausted before he even backed out of the driveway.


As a life coach, I recently asked one of my stressed-out clients to list all the activities he and his family had been involved in since school let out in spring. I needed him to gauge the pace and scope of what might explain his current fatigue. Once he reviewed his list, he was dumbstruck by what he and his family had put themselves through. Most of his family's overcrowded calendar was linked to summer fun-and-sun activities. The problem was that he failed to see the signs of stress creeping in because it was all about going ON VACATION!


We anticipate the inevitable snags when planning a trip cross-country for Thanksgiving. We're battle-ready for the possible snow storm, piece of lost luggage, or sulking family member. But to have to deal with a pouty relative at a summer rental seems like a sin against sunshine itself.


I asked the above client what would happen if he followed through on what he said to me in one of our sessions: to scale back on some of his family's vacation plans. At first, he stared at me as if I’d suggested he call off a space shuttle launch. Within a week, though, he relayed how they indeed cut back some plans and replaced them with a mini “staycation.” At first his wife balked, concerned that it was a throwback to the COVID years. But once she realized it was a choice and not a mandate, she was in.


Is summer burnout a real thing?


Maybe it's hard for us to fully grasp the effort, expense, and exhaustion involved in executing the ideal summer vacation. We seem to be in a state of denial about the inevitable highs and lows, the lost reservation, or occasional stomach upset. Yet, no matter how many mosquito bites or sunburns we suffer, we maintain our enthusiasm for our perfect projections and tolerate nothing less.  


"Unlike traditional burnout, which is usually linked to work overload or chronic stress, summer burnout often stems from the pressure to balance too many expectations under the illusion of rest," notes a blog from Cook Counseling and Consulting, which specializes in psychotherapy services. It notes that common causes of summer burnout include:

  • Overcommitting to social events or travel.

  • Juggling work deadlines while covering for others on vacation.

  • Childcare responsibilities when school is out.

  • Heat-related fatigue and disrupted sleep.

  • The mental load of “making the most” of the season.

  • Financial stress from seasonal spending.


Are we having fun, yet?


Even kids today seem as exhausted as their parents by the summer's end. They've been enrolled in various camps (sometimes back to back) to boost their grasp of science, to expose them to wilderness training, or to beef up their athletic skills.


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The latest trend in summer camps is one that promises parents a technology-free week for their kids, whether in the woods or another natural setting. What was an ordinary camp in the pre-digital era, with hiking trips, swimming lessons, and campfires, is now marketed as a novelty (and often pricey) "analog" experience.


I spent most of my childhood summers complaining about how bored I was. My mother's response was to tell me to go outside and get some "fresh air." No matter what excuse I offered (it's hot and muggy or just plain buggy), she'd simply repeat: "Go find something to do because you're not spending the summer watching TV all day!" It wasn't much different than getting a kid today to put down the cell phone or tablet and go outside for that curative "fresh air" my mother was pushing.


What's perhaps changed, for better or worse, is that my mother didn't think she was responsible for my fun. Or that it was her job to keep me entertained for the summer. What I made of it (or didn't) was entirely up to me. Ah, what I wouldn't give now to get back some of that "bored" time I griped about at age 11.


I've come to realize that time itself is not the problem. Its lack or abundance. It's our assumption that we can control it. As a result, come summertime, we overload it and push it beyond its temporal limitations. In winter, time drags on. In summer, time becomes a most precious commodity.


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The late, great humorist, Erma Bombeck once described her summer experience living in a camper with her family as being more work for her as a mom. She complained that she had traded in her suburban laundry room to now having to wash clothes in a propane-fueled saucepan. Yes, Erma's familiar bombast. But a kernel of truth nonetheless.


© Warner Brothers/Photofest
© Warner Brothers/Photofest

For any of my clients who vacation away from home with their kids, this makeshift hit-or-miss handling of life's daily routines (and nap times) is often a source of acute stress. And we don't have to resemble the Griswolds with Chevy Chase at the helm to realize how quickly vacations can turn into ordeals and a test of wills.


On a trip to Florida with my brothers and I crammed into the backseat, my father actually uttered those threatening words about turning the car around if we didn't behave. My husband's family once left one of the kids behind at a rest stop. It wasn't long before they noticed and doubled-back to retrieve her. It's now a memorable (and amusing) part of the family's folklore.


"Slow travel" on purpose


A survey sponsored by Club Wyndham reported that two in three Americans admit feeling too much pressure during their vacations to actually enjoy them. Of the 2,000 adults surveyed, almost one-quarter of them said they haven't felt physically relaxed after their vacations for the last two years.


The view of Spider Lake from our cabin's dock.
The view of Spider Lake from our cabin's dock.

"High demand for leisure travel and a pent-up desire for vacations have resulted in many of today's travelers approaching their vacations with limited time and an urgent list of must-sees and must-dos. Making them stressed before they even unpack," notes Renu Hanegeefs-Snehi, of Travel + Leisure Co.


"Slow travel is to go boldly, knowing that being in the moment is the only thing that matters because that's where vacation takes place." Yes, to live in the moment, whether en route or at our destination.


When I look back on some of my fondest family vacation memories, they occurred on rainy days at a summer rental when we couldn't go outdoors. We had to be creative and amuse ourselves. We hovered over jigsaw puzzles, board games, and coloring books. And that was just the adults. The point was to spend time together and to let whatever happened happen.


Michigan lakes and northern escapes


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Every summer for the past dozen years my family crowds into a lake house near Traverse City, Michigan. It sleeps 12 and we bring enough food to feed 20 for a month, but which barely lasts the week.


The common fiction for those of us who endure long, dark winters is that we're too active in the summertime to gain weight.


Personally, I leave that lake cottage like other people come off a cruise ship: five pounds heavier. That's despite hiking, biking, swimming, kayaking, and perhaps a game or two of water volleyball.


My weight gain is no surprise to anyone, including me. I start drinking soda (pop to us Michiganders), beer and cocktails around midday. That's after having started on chips and dip not long after breakfast. Basically, it's one long grazing period that's permissible only because I'm ON VACATION!


We can't even plan a boat ride without dragging a cooler and tote bags full of snacks. These boat rides often have me obsessively looking for loons. It's not "up north" to me without hearing their mournful calls echo across the lake. But I'm not sure how we can even hear a loon above the din of crunching, rustling, and crackling that accompanies our moveable feast.


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I once tried to plan ahead for this inevitable vacation binge-fest. I packed a Costco-sized bag of nut and dried fruit packets to ward off the fast food, rest stop fare I knew sets me up for failure. After two weeks and 5,000 miles, I'd eaten just two packets. But I had eaten my weight in hot dogs, hamburgers, potato salad, ice cream, and fudge (courtesy of Mackinac Island). In Traverse City, everything is cherry-inspired, from salsas to t-shirts, incorporating this local specialty. That includes the nearby Cherry Capital Airport.


I've heard plenty of stories from clients with their own version of the potato chip problem. Let's face it, if it's salty, sweet, or greasy, it's our go-to food. And everyone knows that calories don't count while ON VACATION!


Aside from my ongoing struggle with food (and local cherry-flavored BBQ chips), I approached this year's vacation with a new attitude. Like many people, I had to work some of the time, when the Wifi gods were feeling generous. Otherwise, I tried to do nothing whenever I could. To just be in the moment. Appreciate whatever I could see off the porch or the dock. Stare at the campfire across the lake or boat lights in the distance. Give myself a chance to get bored like I did when I was a kid.


Maybe it didn't really slow down time. But it allowed me to relish any given moment for all it was worth. To try to fix in my memory that infectious smile that lights up my nephew's face. Or to appreciate my mother's delight in watching ducks slowly paddle by the dock.


For our final outing this year, we visited one of our nation's gorgeous national parks: Sleeping Bear Dunes. We went at sunset to experience the stunning view in a different light. Literally. It was a spectacular moment to share together before we scatter back to our respective homes in Illinois, Wisconsin, Tennessee, California, and Virginia.


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Henry David Thoreau often spoke about the restorative force of nature and its ability to heal us. In 1853 he offered these words:


All nature is doing her best each moment to make us well -- she exists for no other end. Do not resist her.


For whatever amount of summer may be left, try spending it in nature, whether that's in a backyard close to home or a stunning vista along Lake Michigan. Do not resist the moment. Savor it. Be ON VACATION for real.


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